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Dear Reader,
The other day, my wife said to me, “I kinda like this frugal thing. We’re not being frugal just to be frugal. We’re not just penny-pinchers. We’re trying to be good stewards.” I could not agree more. Previously, even though we thought we were being pretty good, we were never really frugal or even careful with our expenses. We had some culturally “abnormal” practices, like never having cable, and currently we don’t even have a T.V. But we compensated in other areas and brought expenses right back up.
Mrs. Scott is doing a fabulous job at bringing down expenses. I have the job of determining the budget (and sometimes I feel like I’m being pretty ruthless), but I would say she has the harder job of making it work. There have been some strong habits we have needed to break, and fast! And she has done all this with a great attitude. She said, “As long as I know there is a purpose to getting out of debt.” There’s definitely a purpose. We have a debt free future ahead of us. We’ve been so busy trying to catch up with the life we have lead while getting into debt. Now with our new mindset we will be able to accomplish so much more.
We have said good-bye to a few creature comforts in our decision to put all those extra pennies towards debt. No more eating out for now. We have a small amount to use for that, just in case, but we’ve been so enthusiastic about our goal and busy with life that we haven’t used it in the past three months. We cut down expenses in entertainment and anywhere else that just didn’t make sense to spend. We really have enough to entertain us here at home for the moment. And it helps us connect on a more personal level when we have to get creative.
The biggest cut, and originally the biggest challenge, has been the grocery budget. We have cut that almost in half from what we used to spend. At first we were wondering how we were going to feed everybody. Well, with a little tweaking and a little help from the Hillbilly Housewife and others, we have been eating very very well-I would argue, better than when we thought we were eating well. The last few meals have been very tasty, quite filling, and there have been plenty of yummy leftovers for lunches. You’ve heard Dave Ramsey say, “rice and beans, beans and rice.” That’s exactly what we’re doing. This combination is very tasty, filling, healthy, and inexpensive! I have a feeling as we become debt free and eventually financially free-that meal will find a special place in our hearts.
If you haven’t already, would you be willing to take the jump with us and become frugal with a purpose? It’s a serious step, but it can be fun-especially if you have someone to team up with.
Do you have any favorite beans & rice recipes, or maybe a resource for living frugally? I know you “frugal hackers” should have something to share.
“Frugality without creativity is deprivation.” - Amy Dacyczyn
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February 11, 2008 at 11:04 am
I love the quote
and beans and rice can be pretty darn tasty with the right ingredients.
February 11, 2008 at 3:54 pm
We eat lots of rice also, and I have just started adding more beans to our diet.
http://toddlerworld.blogspot.com/2008/02/secrets-out.html
Here is a recipe for my chicken enchiladas, in which I have substituted beans for the chicken and serve with a side of rice. Very yummy and cheap!
Good luck with the cheaper grocery budget. We live on a very frugal one also, and it is alot of work but can be done!!!!
February 11, 2008 at 7:37 pm
Thanks Sarah, I will check out your recipe
It’s good to know we’re not alone!
February 19, 2008 at 3:01 am
Excellent!
Being frugal with a purpose is so important. If you’re frugal for frugal’s sake, you’ll quickly lose focus/inspiration.
But, when you have an overall goal, you’re more likely to stick with it AND reach your full potential.
February 20, 2008 at 5:49 am
@ Sarah - Thanks for the recipe and the encouragement!
@ Mighty Bargain Hunter - Thanks for inlcuding me in this week’s Festival of Frugality!
@ Kacie - Indeed, anything without a purpose is just plain harder. Thank you for the encouragement. I’ll be sure to check out sensetosave.com
February 25, 2008 at 7:03 pm
You should check out The More-With-Less Cookbook by Doris Janzen Longacre. Along with tasty and low cost meals, there are articles on good stewardship, inspiring pieces of scripture and useful tips. I think that you might really appreciate it, and you might be able to order it through interlibrary loan.
February 25, 2008 at 9:20 pm
@Mandi - Thank you, I will check out the book. it does sound like something we would appreciate.